Books are my Third Place was created as a refuge for readers—a place to connect + grow a community of fellow book lovers, delight in little luxuries from your favorite fandoms, and help you discover your next great read.

Why ‘Books are my Third Place’?

The concept of “third places” comes from sociology, a term coined by Ray Oldenburg. People have three main places: home, work, and third places—where you build community and connect with others around shared interests and hobbies. In the past these typically were places like cafes, churches, parks, members clubs, etc.

BAMTP and its sister shop, Valor & Lore, give a nod to the cozy, sophisticated feeling of salons of the last century, but with a touch of modern whimsy, and the fantastical. No stuffiness. No pretentiousness.

Today, BAMTP strives to deliver to you, dear reader, a true sense of community, discovery, and connection around our shared love of great books with a penchant for literary luxuries, and perhaps a shared addiction to historical and fantasy Cdramas.

I’m honored to share this virtual ‘third place’ with you.

Meet the Creator + Founder, Ashley

I’ve always been a voracious reader. I grew up in a tiny town with no TV, so books were my entertainment, a way to escape the bullies, and to dream in the land of what if.

Booktok and Bookstagram are my found families. Special little corners of TikTok and Instagram—places I can be myself with fellow nerds. I am so grateful for the friends and community they’ve led me to.

That’s why I started BAMTP: It’s the best feeling to nerd out over favorite reads, help people discover new ones, and design thoughtful items for their favorite fandoms.

When I’m not reading, I’m a Marketing + Brand Consultant, Startup Advisor, and former VP of Marketing, with 15+ years of Marketing + Leadership Development experience. I love to talk all things brand storytelling, so authors, small bookish biz owners, or full time creators, if you need help, let’s chat!

Some of my favorite things

PARIS IS MY HAPPY PLACE

COFFEE AT ALL HOURS

PHOTOGRAPHY (SONY AIII)

TRAVELING + EXPLORING

WATCHING COSTUME CDRAMAS

EDM + SOUNDTRACKS

FAVORITE RECENT READS:

Divine Rivals by Rebecca Ross

Strange the Dreamer by Laini Taylor

The Poet Empress by Shen Tao

Half a Soul by Olivia Atwater

Words of Radiance by Brandon Sanderson

The Aurora Cycle by Amie Kaufman + Jay Kristoff

Blood Over Bright Haven by M.L. Wang

Six Scorched Roses by Carissa Broadbent

One Dark Window by Rachel Gillig

Sunrise on the Reaping by Suzanne Collins

Onyx Storm by Rebecca Yarros

“But what destiny does not do is home visits.

You have to go for it.”

— Carlos Ruiz Zafón, The Shadow of the Wind